The first rule they talk about, "Date with discretion" I fell is very true and relevant. It could become very embarrassing if the wrong person gets a hold of a love letter you intended to reach for boyfriend or girlfriend. This could also pose a problem by creating an opportunity for a coworker to black mail you especially if you are in a high position on your office. Rule two is important for almost the same reason, sometimes it seem people forget that facebook is public and very accessible to anyone. i feel rule three is important for any relationship, you need to make sure their is more in common between each other then one small thing, especially a place were you cannot truelly be yourself sometimes. Rule four is important so you don't lose your job or worse get in trouble with the law for stealing. Finally rule five is extrememly important, almost everyone has heard of one office party story were coworkers drink to much and end up doing things they will regret later. This actions can not only get you fired but potentially ruin a marriage as well.
Breaking Down the Rhetoric of Love in Pop Culture-- Spring 2011, The Ohio State University
Friday, May 13, 2011
Group 4 Question 2
I feel that the information in this article is very true. If you look at relationships outside of the workplace there is a lot of things that go wrong with them that affect everyone. When a couple breaks up a lot of times there is a lot of tension between the two people, sometimes they will not talk at all or barely. Other times when it is a particularly rough break up one or both members of the relationship and sometimes their friends retaliate towards one another by damaging some of their belongings or trying to ruin other relation ships the other person has. Now if we think about these kinds of situation inside the workplace, things could get bad very fast. Think about trying to work while two people in your office are bitterly fighting or not talking, this could bring down an office, especially in one where everyone is supposed to be a team and work together.
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I agree with all these points. I also would like to add that being in a relationship in the workplace can seriously hamper advancement opportunities as it puts you in a more vulnerable position. For example, if a cooworker who you are competing with knows about your relationship, he could use that to try to sabotage you if you are both competing for a raise or promotion.
ReplyDeletei feel like people who are in relationships in the workplace should keep their love life out of work. when they go to work, they ca have lunch together if they have the same lunch time but love should be out of it completely. i mean they will see each other after work anyway so why risk it by sending love letters back and fourth at the work place. that to me is childish and no mature adult should be doing that.
ReplyDeleteI feel that workplace romances hurt production and cause unneeded tension. You are supposed to want that person but deny yourself that at work. It seems it would be stressful ontop of work stress.
ReplyDeleteI have mixed feelings about work relationships. I believe that if they can be kept professional than they are acceptable. If they are anything like the grey's anatomy relationships where there is a room designated for sex during the day, than no. There are rules and people should abide by them. No exceptions. Love can wait or love can be expressed in other ways. If kept professional than i definitely think that they should be alright.
ReplyDeleteI think that workplace relationships can be successful, but that it is very hard to and most probably end up badly. If the two participants in the relationship can keep their love life separate from work, it can be successful. The scary part is if they break up. They probably won't be able to work together, their coworkers would hear all the drama, and the office might even become split.
ReplyDeleteI also think that workplace relationships can be successful. Also, I believe that can improve their work ability, because they get less stress of "I want to see you right now baby" situation, so it wil help their work ability. Also, life is not a drama, so I believe that relationship cannot make company hard.
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